Sex Toys and Bar Girls in The Philippines - Why a vibrator's more often a better performer than a client.
The sex tourism industry continues to flourish in the Philippines and there's no shortage of girl's leaving the provinces to try their luck in the big cities in order to support their families. It can be a sleazy scene for some and paradise for many others. Often older Western men and a growing number of Koreans flock to cities like Angels, Cebu, Makati and Sabang to find a girlfriend or enjoy the sexual company of a much younger woman.
So we thought we'd ask the question: Do the girls incorporate the use of sex toys into their private sex lives and how often do they use sex toys with their clients? And what's the whole scene like with sex toys and bar girls in The Philippines?
Lilli (not her real name) has been working in Makati for two years and has built up a following of regular clients in that time. So does she incorporate sex toys when she meets up with a client?
"I do use sex toys mainly because it turns men on. But I prefer to mainly stick to using a dildo. I find men don't really know how to use a vibrator on a woman and it gets uncomfortable. Dildo's are nice and flexible, but it's also uncomfortable if a man tries to insert it too fast and often into my pussy."
And how about your private sex life?
"I have my favorite clit vibrator that's amazing. Most of my clients are a lot older and because there's no element of love attached to these arrangements, I don't get turned on at all when I'm with a client. I think I may have cum three or four times in those two years working with clients for money. And that was only when the man paid to be with two girls and we used vibrators on each other to turn the man on. I make sure the men cum all the time and enjoy themselves, but I really only cum and get turned on when I'm alone with my vibrator."
So would Lilly be interested in using glass sex toys or dildo's? She looks hesitant when I show her our Black Beauty Glass Dildo.
"I never try glass before. Is it safe?
After I hand her the dildo and explain how safe and hygienic glass sex toys are to use, she looks willing to give it a try.
"It feels beautiful. Nice and heavy. I can see myself using this with an other girl too. Can I keep (it)?"
"Sure. Let me know what you think."
"I will. Thank you very much."
I'm also interested in general how the sex toy market operates in general in The Philippines.
Sex Toys in the Philippines: A Comprehensive Overview
The landscape of sexual wellness and the acceptance of sex toys in the Philippines has evolved significantly over recent years. This shift reflects broader changes in societal attitudes towards sexuality, personal pleasure, and health. Here’s an in-depth look at the current state of sex toys in the Philippines, including their cultural context, market dynamics, safety considerations, and emerging trends.
Cultural Context
Historically, discussions surrounding sex and sexual wellness have been heavily influenced by conservative values prevalent in Filipino society. Many individuals have felt shame or embarrassment about exploring their sexuality or purchasing sex toys. However, as awareness around sexual health and personal pleasure grows, more people are beginning to embrace these products without stigma.
Some organizations have emerged to promote sexual education and wellness among Filipinos. They aim to dismantle misconceptions about sex and encourage open conversations about pleasure. This cultural shift is crucial for normalizing the use of sex toys as part of a healthy sexual lifestyle.
Market Dynamics
The market for sex toys in the Philippines has expanded beyond traditional brick-and-mortar shops into online platforms. E-commerce has made it easier for consumers to access a wide variety of products discreetly.
Popular Products
Clitoral Stimulators: These devices are popular among women seeking intense orgasms through air pulse technology.
Masturbators: For men, products like cups provide pleasurable experiences that are easy to clean and reuse.
Couples’ Toys: Vibrators designed for use during intercourse can enhance intimacy between partners.
Safety Considerations
When purchasing sex toys, safety should be a top priority. Consumers are encouraged to:
Choose Quality Materials: Opt for medical-grade silicone or other body-safe materials to avoid harmful chemicals.
Check Hygiene Standards: Ensure that the toy is easy to clean and maintain hygiene.
Consider Design Features: For anal play, select toys with flared bases; for waterproof use, ensure that the product is rated accordingly.
Purchasing from reputable sellers also ensures that consumers receive safe products backed by warranties.
Emerging Trends
As acceptance grows, several trends are emerging within the Philippine market:
Increased Online Shopping: The convenience of online shopping allows individuals to explore options without fear of judgment.
Educational Initiatives: Brands are increasingly focusing on providing educational content alongside their products to empower consumers with knowledge about safe practices and benefits.
Diverse Product Offerings: There is a growing demand for gender-neutral toys and those catering specifically to various sexual orientations.
Legislative Challenges
Despite this positive trend towards acceptance, there are challenges on the legislative front. Recent proposals by lawmakers seek to regulate or even penalize the sale of sex toys under claims of protecting societal morals. Such measures could hinder progress toward normalizing sexual wellness products in Filipino society.
Conclusion
The journey toward embracing sex toys in the Philippines reflects broader societal changes regarding sexuality and personal pleasure. As more people become educated about sexual health and wellness, it is likely that acceptance will continue to grow despite existing challenges. And the sex tourism industry in The Philippines is part of that.
Love Soph xo
Sophie Joy visited The Philippines on her way to the Asia Adult Expo.
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